"Change the way you look at things and the things you look at change." - Wayne W. Dyer This month we posted on our social media 25 things you can and Can't control. The interaction we have received highlighted to us that we are all searching for control and value in our lives. This should be obvious, however how many of us actually feel like we have control and value in enough our of lives?
By being more aware of what we can and can't control, allows our minds have more information to create successful change. If we cannot control it and don't want to spend time and energy on it then why get worked up about it. If we are not happy about something we want control of but can't control it yet, we now have an opportunity to change how we look at it. As we say if we keep doing what we are doing we will always get the same results.
Do you need to change the way you look at it or can you influence the people involved? A big highlight from people we spoke with was how much they want to control others, especially responses and emotions. What was interesting to hear is how many other them do not wish to be controlled themselves. This is a common cycle especially with hierarchy management and takes brave leadership to change this cycle.
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